[At first I would like to introduce a small disclaimer
that my observations are based mostly on an academic society and represent
private opinion. ]
I came to Finland because I was quite interested in Finnish
culture and way of living. I started to read various blogs and watched lots of
videos related to Finland and Finns. Also two of my best friends have been in
Finland and have told me a lot of stories. I learned a lot about various facts
as well as stereotypes about Finnish people. One of the most common stereotypes
is that Finns are shy and closed . Another one is that they need to be drunk to
get social. And yet another one is that they never talk or smile to strangers
and run away if strangers talk to them. Many of these stereotypes are not true
or at least not entirely true and might be very harmful if misunderstood. I
have talked to many Finnish people who were completely strangers to me and I
don't remember a situation when somebody was running away from me. Some
particular people were a little nervous about me bothering them, but well...
everybody can have a bad day .The truth is, even though the first minutes might
be awkward, later it isn't that hard to keep up conversation and soon you can
notice that Finns are nice, kind people. They also don't need to be under the
influence of alcohol to have a conversation (of course it helps in some cases J).
There are many student organizations which organize events, unlike the club
parties (at those events there is no alcohol or only a little of it). For
example LUT Chaplains or hiking club “Ulvova Susi”. The thing about Finns and
their relationships is that they seem to be much more focused on the quality of
relationships than on their amount. In many cases they don't even practice
small talk. Long silences during tea
with a friend is normal for them, unlike for me (In my country we even have a
sentence relating to "awkward silence" used just to break a silence
if the silence during conversation is longer than 10 or 15 seconds). For
foreigners it likely sounds weird or even impossible, but once my Finnish
friend got a little annoyed with my talkativeness and asked to say nothing
until she says something. As a result we spent around 5 minutes saying nothing,
just drinking tea. After that she was laughing that she could literally hear my
thoughts "Don't say anything, Don't say anything ,....".
This is because as far as I noticed Finns don't
practice talking for talking. They are talking when they have something to say.
Therefore they do talk to each other, smile to each other and in many cases,
they are absolutely not shy. In fact some of them are quite talkative and open,
but you need to know them better, than "Hi, how are you?", to notice
that. It is not enough, because greeting people, when you are passing them by,
as warmly as you would do in many European non-Scandinavian countries, is not
so much practiced in Finland. As a result you simply need to talk to those
people and have actual conversations.
Finns have developed many other interesting ways of
socializing with each other.
One of the most amazing examples of creating
possibilities to spend time with other people are “guilds”. Students in Finland
in many cases can choose subjects they study. That means that every student has
a little "individual" study program. This also means they are meeting
many new people in new classes. In order to bind particular groups of students like
Electrical Engineering, "guilds" have been created. It is something
like a micro association of the particular profession.
They have their common guild room in which students
can rest and relax with a cup of coffee between classes. The guild also has a
board to supervise it and therefore guild members can organize various events for
university’s students.
Another way are sitz parties. They are a pleasant
combination of alcohol and singing. So you can both drink something, sing a lot
and meet many new people. Basically the whole point of sitz is singing, but
between songs you drink. This might sound easy... but after a couple of songs, a
couple of shots and a couple of beers it might turn out that you brought your
inner singer to a completely new level.... Aside from sitz parties, Finnish
people enjoy also simple joys like board games or computer games for example in
the student union basement (the area in the basement of the university for
parties). Imagine an average club room filled with people sitting in front of
tables with board games or computers and enjoying their time. That's exactly
how it looks. During many events like this, parties or barbecues there is a
sauna available for participants. It is very popular. After all, sauna is an
important part of Finnish culture. Finns are very close to nature, so in the
typical Finnish sauna, people are sitting naked, one next to another. This is rather
exceptional, because normally Finns are keeping a huge personal space for
themselves. This is best observable at the bus stop. If you see row of people
standing in one meter distances from each other, it means they are probably
Finns.
A particularly
interesting example of culture in Finland are the Saami people, which I had a
pleasure to meet during my trip to
Lapland. I visited a reindeer farm owned by them, located near a village
called Inari. Aside from the mentioned farm, in Inari there is also a Saami
council and a museum.
Saami are native tribes living in the northern part of Norway, Sweden, Finland and Russia. Their main way of survival in the past was focused on breeding reindeers. Nowadays they preserve their way of living and they continue their craft in modern ways. They breed reindeers, sell their meat, organize many tourist activities like reindeer sleigh rides or presentations of their traditional dresses and huts and manufacture handmade crafts which are sold to tourists. They have developed an interesting way of breeding reindeers. Due to the fact that there are not so many natural threats for reindeers in Lapland, they breed relatively fast. Saami took advantage of that and they limited their role to mark ear of a reindeer with a very special and sophisticated set of cuts (so they know to whom reindeer belongs) and count them once a year. Overpopulation of reindeers is solved by selling them for meat production purposes. In the meantime, Saami are making handmade medallions, toys and knives from reindeer’s horns.
Saami are native tribes living in the northern part of Norway, Sweden, Finland and Russia. Their main way of survival in the past was focused on breeding reindeers. Nowadays they preserve their way of living and they continue their craft in modern ways. They breed reindeers, sell their meat, organize many tourist activities like reindeer sleigh rides or presentations of their traditional dresses and huts and manufacture handmade crafts which are sold to tourists. They have developed an interesting way of breeding reindeers. Due to the fact that there are not so many natural threats for reindeers in Lapland, they breed relatively fast. Saami took advantage of that and they limited their role to mark ear of a reindeer with a very special and sophisticated set of cuts (so they know to whom reindeer belongs) and count them once a year. Overpopulation of reindeers is solved by selling them for meat production purposes. In the meantime, Saami are making handmade medallions, toys and knives from reindeer’s horns.
What really
impressed me in those people is their will to adapt. Aside from selling their
handicrafts to tourist they also adapted to make guided activities like feeding
reindeers and riding reindeer sledges or making exhibitions of their original style of life. In fact,
activities including reindeers have become so popular that some reindeers have
even their photos on services like Instagram. In order to be able to do so Saami
speak at least 4 languages (Saami, Finnish, Swedish, English and also often German
and/or Russian). Between periods of counting the reindeers, Saami people travel
around Scandinavia and give concerts of their native music. As I mentioned
above, they have even their own council, where they decide how to better adapt
to the modern world and also a museum of their own history open for tourists
visiting Lapland.
So if you would
like to visit Finland, but you are afraid of cold, closed, shy Finns... just
fear not, come and see for yourself, what is a reality (and in case of
desperation just talk to students :) )
Text by Michal Micor, a student in Independent Study in English course
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